Hello, loyal readers! So glad we are together again to continue our talk about motives. But wait! For those of you who have not read the previous blog, please take a moment to read it before diving into this one. Believe me, you don’t want to miss a thing!
In the previous blog, we first found out the meaning of the word motive. This brought to remembrance the significance of the meaning so I can answer the question. Also, I wrote about the importance of good reason and the real reason to be one in the same. Although this should seem obvious, at times it is good to be reminded of it.
What are the motives that drive people to do what they do? Let’s dive deep into this question. Are you ready? Excellent! Identifying the reasons for our actions will give us an internal perspective to evaluate and analyze. When we understand and confront our own intentions, we then can adjust so we can be authentic with ourselves and others.
The first reason some will do what they do is for position. In and of itself it is not a bad thing. Position can grant you the opportunity to positively impact others in a greater capacity. However, it is when adding value of others is secondary that will be detrimental. The focal point should be to be beneficial to those under your leadership.
The power motive is the second reason for those that desire to have an impact on other people, to affect their behavior or emotions. One can influence others to follow the vision and purpose desired. With this motive comes great responsibility. It is crucial not to be self-seeking but to truly look internally at the why in our heart.
The third motive people have that impacts themselves and others is prestige. Prestige is the desire for voluntary regard obtained through others’ admiration and respect particularly for one’s valued skills and knowledge.
It is an insatiable ego food that needs to be starved. Why? We are more than ENOUGH. It is not accolades, respect, or admiration that define us! We will continue our next blog with the last two motives. See you then!
“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful; I know that full well.” Psalm 139:14
Peace, Love, and Joy!
Sandra Ivette Miranda
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